Those are just pictures of @Hasar, nothing to see here.
And I love too Be still, my indelible friend That love soon might end You are unbreaking And be known in its aching Though quaking Shown in this shaking Though crazy Lately of my wasteland, baby That's just wasteland, baby
Doesn't mean you can't joke about violence or other things that offend people though! If we removed that which may offend someone from the realm of comedy, we'd have precious little to joke about
100% agreed. But, my point wasn't necessarily one of 'we can't joke about this', it was 'enforce the rules the same for moderators and players alike'.
My sister did a photo bomb, unfortunately her little guy decided it was the perfect time to say 'cheese' very quietly.
My other sister and I. Yes we are both Indian/Indian with a mix of irish in there somewhere. My sister has been on two years of bed rest straight and saw less sun than my geeky self did. So she's super pale.
you can tell what my pastime was when I wasn't running around Gatlinburg.
I'll just repeat this because I clearly didn't get the point across the first time: It is not about being offended. I don't expect you to give two shits about my feelings. It's about stopping a system that encourages the opression of (in this case) women.
EDIT: Let's not even mention the fact that if one in four women (Not counting men) are victims or rape (and the numbers for victims of abuse are not very different), the chances of a VICTIM hearing your witty joke are quite high. And if triggering someone to relive what is more likely the most painful moment of their lives just because you want to giggle a little is ok to you, that's enough for me to lose a lot of respect for you.
It seriously took me 5 minutes to google that. And no, no, no, Ebola jokes are not funny and you disgust me. You all do. I find it disgusting that you use the privilege you have (Not having to live in constant fear of the disease - yet) to laugh about the ones who do, to laugh about their deaths, because ah, yes, it makes you feel so much better. But trust me, if the disease was an issue in the U.S., no one would be laughing, plenty would be dying. Would it still be funny after your loved ones died? I don't think so.
Stop laughing at other people's miseries, it isn't edgy or cool, it makes you a terrible human being. Why is it not the same as, say, laughing about someone in Achaea catching fire? Again, the context is different, it ends in what I would almost categorize as cartoon violence. It won't make a murderer go out and kill someone because that's not how it works. Violence against women and rape on the other hand, will make a rapist or abuser feel valid.
This community has plenty of people who would rather ignore reality, that is true with most communities. The biggest privilege is being able to ignore your privilege, and thus ignore the opression of others. There is not a single day in which I don't feel disappointed by you. A couple of google searches will tell you a lot, but only if you want to listen.
Think of all the walls poor Stitch is breaking! (can't we seriously just bloody go back to using this thread for pictures and not rants, those belong elsewhere)
Aurora says, "Tharvis, why are you always breaking things?!" Artemis says, "You are so high maintenance, Tharvis, gosh." Tecton says, "It's still your fault, Tharvis."
This isn't me disapproving your posts, and I'm glad you've
put genuine effort into all of your posting, but this doesn't feel like the
place for social justice. Direct messages are a great way
to convey yourself to individuals, rather than inside our player
pictures thread (I do realize this is where the catalyst occured and I
understand not all of your post was directed to an individual). If you are truly disgusted by all of us and are not using that wording lightly, then please consider taking a break from these forums, or consider taking them less close to heart.
@Rom As you said, they weren't directed at a specific person, which causes the issue at making it a private message. It was for all who agreed with the idea. I understand that this might not be the place, too, but really there is no easier solution I've found. Making a new post about it would be taking the issue out of context, not to mention people would have to find it to begin with, and could just choose to ignore it since it's not a conversation but rather me talking to those who care to listen.
Unfortunately if I had to take a break from people for their shitty behaviour I'd need to take a break from life, and that's unfortunately not an option. My current idea is that if someone does something like what @Sarapis did, it's not on purpose (hopefully) and they're just misinformed. Thus I proceed to inform them, hopefully reach an understanding and we can get over it. My issue here is the fact that people don't seem to be listening, which I guess is fair enough since they don't have to, much less in the context of this post, but then again this is still my best bet. I might be wrong, I'd be glad to find a better way. Unfortunately most other options people see as """shoving my opinion down their throats."""
You made your point. Whether people choose to listen or not us not on you. Continuing at it hurts your case more than stopping, right now. Was I offended? No. Do I think it was entirely appropriate? No. You all made really good points, and @Sarapis apologised while also giving an explanation for his reasoning. Pushing at it after he apologised is in poor taste and you only serve to ensure more people will take the side of the guy who appears reasonable here.
Hint, it's not you.
Take a step back, accept the victory, small as you might think it is, and let this drop. Hopefully everyone learned their lesson and we won't have to have this conversation again in a month or two.
@Ulrike everyone knows I just hold my gun right up to the screen.
Actually if you take the focusing lens out of the gun, you can aim it anywhere you like and hit the whole screen simultaneously. You can get up to insane levels. Not that it's important anymore, cuz nobody does that anymore, but still - just so you know.
And @Herose, is that a Lupine rifle you're learning to snipe with?
@Ulrike everyone knows I just hold my gun right up to the screen.
Actually if you take the focusing lens out of the gun, you can aim it anywhere you like and hit the whole screen simultaneously. You can get up to insane levels. Not that it's important anymore, cuz nobody does that anymore, but still - just so you know.
And @Herose, is that a Lupine rifle you're learning to snipe
I really didn't need a reason to pull out the NES right now...
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One of the symptoms of an approaching nervous breakdown is the belief that one's work is terribly important
Here, have an EXTREMELY ugly picture of me to make up for it!
That love soon might end You are unbreaking
And be known in its aching Though quaking
Shown in this shaking Though crazy
Lately of my wasteland, baby That's just wasteland, baby
@Mishgul and I do the best we can do with the resources available, okay
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My other sister and I. Yes we are both Indian/Indian with a mix of irish in there somewhere. My sister has been on two years of bed rest straight and saw less sun than my geeky self did. So she's super pale.
you can tell what my pastime was when I wasn't running around Gatlinburg.
I'll just repeat this because I clearly didn't get the point across the first time: It is not about being offended. I don't expect you to give two shits about my feelings. It's about stopping a system that encourages the opression of (in this case) women.
EDIT: Let's not even mention the fact that if one in four women (Not counting men) are victims or rape (and the numbers for victims of abuse are not very different), the chances of a VICTIM hearing your witty joke are quite high. And if triggering someone to relive what is more likely the most painful moment of their lives just because you want to giggle a little is ok to you, that's enough for me to lose a lot of respect for you.
It seriously took me 5 minutes to google that. And no, no, no, Ebola jokes are not funny and you disgust me. You all do. I find it disgusting that you use the privilege you have (Not having to live in constant fear of the disease - yet) to laugh about the ones who do, to laugh about their deaths, because ah, yes, it makes you feel so much better. But trust me, if the disease was an issue in the U.S., no one would be laughing, plenty would be dying. Would it still be funny after your loved ones died? I don't think so.
Stop laughing at other people's miseries, it isn't edgy or cool, it makes you a terrible human being. Why is it not the same as, say, laughing about someone in Achaea catching fire? Again, the context is different, it ends in what I would almost categorize as cartoon violence. It won't make a murderer go out and kill someone because that's not how it works. Violence against women and rape on the other hand, will make a rapist or abuser feel valid.
This community has plenty of people who would rather ignore reality, that is true with most communities. The biggest privilege is being able to ignore your privilege, and thus ignore the opression of others. There is not a single day in which I don't feel disappointed by you. A couple of google searches will tell you a lot, but only if you want to listen.
(can't we seriously just bloody go back to using this thread for pictures and not rants, those belong elsewhere)
Artemis says, "You are so high maintenance, Tharvis, gosh."
Tecton says, "It's still your fault, Tharvis."
Come join the Achaea discord!
Classy move tho, @Sarapis. I for one appreciate the gesture, doubly so since I don't think it was necessary.
Unfortunately if I had to take a break from people for their shitty behaviour I'd need to take a break from life, and that's unfortunately not an option. My current idea is that if someone does something like what @Sarapis did, it's not on purpose (hopefully) and they're just misinformed. Thus I proceed to inform them, hopefully reach an understanding and we can get over it. My issue here is the fact that people don't seem to be listening, which I guess is fair enough since they don't have to, much less in the context of this post, but then again this is still my best bet. I might be wrong, I'd be glad to find a better way. Unfortunately most other options people see as """shoving my opinion down their throats."""
Hint, it's not you.
Take a step back, accept the victory, small as you might think it is, and let this drop. Hopefully everyone learned their lesson and we won't have to have this conversation again in a month or two.
Dohn mah?
This one is a shameless selfie before work:
And this one is my boyfriend and I the night before.... I'm partially sober if you can tell.
And @Herose, is that a Lupine rifle you're learning to snipe with?
I really didn't need a reason to pull out the NES right now...