I mean, not that I'm emotionally invested, but right after Carrie Fisher's death, now her mother just got rushed to the hospital after what most sources are reporting as a suspected stroke.
Yep... after fighting tears since the news, I finally started crying when I heard about that. I cannot imagine the pain Carrie's daughter and brother are in right now.
I mean, not that I'm emotionally invested, but right after Carrie Fisher's death, now her mother just got rushed to the hospital after what most sources are reporting as a suspected stroke.
Yep... after fighting tears since the news, I finally started crying when I heard about that. I cannot imagine the pain Carrie's daughter and brother are in right now.
Debbie Reynolds. She's gone...
Gods, 2016 isn't just taking our celebrities, it's doing its best Keyser Söze impersonation while it wreaks havoc.
I mean, not that I'm emotionally invested, but right after Carrie Fisher's death, now her mother just got rushed to the hospital after what most sources are reporting as a suspected stroke.
Yep... after fighting tears since the news, I finally started crying when I heard about that. I cannot imagine the pain Carrie's daughter and brother are in right now.
Debbie Reynolds. She's gone...
I'm actually back to refusing to cry. Not a healthy response, but it's even harder to keep composure when basically the last thing she said before her stroke was she wanted to be with Carrie. I'm going to watch Star Wars, make a little Leia, and know they are much more powerful now as they are one with the Force.
You guys realize that thousands of people die every day right? Just in the time it took you to read this there were two still Borns a heart attack and someone had a stroke.
No. I thought humans were immortal and the reason we are memorialising those who (unawaredly) made and shaped who we are today was because they broke the myth.
I really don't understand the out pouring of grief when celebrities die, especially on social media. It's like a competition to see who's the most upset.
When we lose someone like Carrie Fisher I can fully understand people being upset, her job brought an element of joy to those who enjoyed what she did. However, so does my local butcher. For those who never met her saying they are "devastated" just seems like attention seeking, sure, be upset someone has died, but I used "devastated" when I lost my best friend in June, and there's not a chance in hell I would use that phrase for an actor who was in a film I watched once.
I really don't understand the out pouring of grief when celebrities die, especially on social media. It's like a competition to see who's the most upset.
When we lose someone like Carrie Fisher I can fully understand people being upset, her job brought an element of joy to those who enjoyed what she did. However, so does my local butcher. For those who never met her saying they are "devastated" just seems like attention seeking, sure, be upset someone has died, but I used "devastated" when I lost my best friend in June, and there's not a chance in hell I would use that phrase for an actor who was in a film I watched once.
What? Your local butcher died? I'm devastated, beside myself with grief. Cancel all the things, if you need me, I'll be in mourning
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Lack of empathy? I feel for the guy who just lost his sister and mother, that's beyond tragic. As someone who has gone through the loss of a parent I have some empathy wirh the Fisher family. Does it make me want to break down in tears and post all over Facebook how devastated I am? No.
Dont mistake my post for a lack of empathy or sympathy, but if I did that for everyone who died i'd not be a functional human being, I save that for the people who truely matter to me.
Lack of empathy? I feel for the guy who just lost his sister and mother, that's beyond tragic. As someone who has gone through the loss of a parent I have some empathy wirh the Fisher family. Does it make me want to break down in tears and post all over Facebook how devastated I am? No.
Dont mistake my post for a lack of empathy or sympathy, but if I did that for everyone who died i'd not be a functional human being, I save that for the people who truely matter to me.
Definitely a meaty topic; our sympathies lie with common celebrities that're bigger than life -- people that helped shape our imagination and spark our interests in ways perhaps we would not have otherwise known. Everyone places different import upon each and thusly, some are more hurt or moved by their passing.
I'm with @Sobriquet -- I feel for the man who lost two family members a day apart from each other at the holiday season. I'm sure you all would give a bit of sympathy for me, as someone who lost an uncle and grandparent two days apart during the holidays, but I think it's more reasonable that we find solace in each others' fleeting mourning for celebrities that've shuffled off rather than a huge out-pouring of text emotion at every passing.
Let's keep this post going for the fluff it is and an homage to our disappointment in 2016.
The first time I felt genuine sorrow over a celebrity's passing was when Robin Williams died. But I remember thinking too that as sad as his death was the thing I was really mourning was the way my memories of his performances would forever be coloured now for me by his death.
I can't watch Mork and Mindy re-runs or Hook without thinking of What Dreams May Come because there was this recognition that even though he was on the screen he also was gone from this world.
The fourth wall is just broken down forever. The films and shows had this tinge of hollow sadness, which is so often the opposite of what he was portraying.
I haven't even tried to re-watch the Harry Potter series since Alan Rickman. I think Star Wars is going to be out for a while too.
There is always going to be a group of people who throw things out of proportion and weep and wail because X celebrity died and are in part using their grief as a ploy to gain attention.
Then there are people who are generally touched as if losing an aunt, uncle or someone genuinely close to them. Yeah, I did squeeze out a few tears when I heard the news, not because she was a great actress and looked hot chained up.
She was a really strong role model for me in terms of accepting mental health issues and being open about them. When I was struggling to remember what is normal and to keep things quiet there was this larger than life, successful woman that everyone accepted and even loved her eccentricities. and yeah, maybe people could do the same to me. (Same goes for Robin Williams, however that was a bit more painful as of his cause of death),
So yeah, thousands of people die every day. I'm not advocating pouring it out on social media. But people touch people's lives in ways you may not see. People deal with sadness different ways. There is a lot of factors in it so don't dismiss as everyone being ridiculous and swept up in celebrity death glory.
Meh for me as a medic in the army I'm probably a bit jaded. Seen plenty of death. Men women children. Maybe I should be softer about it but ugh it's just not in me anymore.
Whoever brought up Robin Williams, fuck you. He was.... I can't describe it. Good Morning Vietnam. Everything. I saw What Dreams May Come when I was like 10. Even then it was haunting. It was everything you wanted to believe a human being could be. Could endure. Even weird shit like Jumanji. He made characters that felt so connected and humane. As a former actor turned lawyer (courtroom act/monkey) I love his work and cry still. He's one of the best to exist
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When we lose someone like Carrie Fisher I can fully understand people being upset, her job brought an element of joy to those who enjoyed what she did. However, so does my local butcher. For those who never met her saying they are "devastated" just seems like attention seeking, sure, be upset someone has died, but I used "devastated" when I lost my best friend in June, and there's not a chance in hell I would use that phrase for an actor who was in a film I watched once.
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Dont mistake my post for a lack of empathy or sympathy, but if I did that for everyone who died i'd not be a functional human being, I save that for the people who truely matter to me.
I'm with @Sobriquet -- I feel for the man who lost two family members a day apart from each other at the holiday season. I'm sure you all would give a bit of sympathy for me, as someone who lost an uncle and grandparent two days apart during the holidays, but I think it's more reasonable that we find solace in each others' fleeting mourning for celebrities that've shuffled off rather than a huge out-pouring of text emotion at every passing.
Let's keep this post going for the fluff it is and an homage to our disappointment in 2016.
I can't watch Mork and Mindy re-runs or Hook without thinking of What Dreams May Come because there was this recognition that even though he was on the screen he also was gone from this world.
The fourth wall is just broken down forever. The films and shows had this tinge of hollow sadness, which is so often the opposite of what he was portraying.
I haven't even tried to re-watch the Harry Potter series since Alan Rickman. I think Star Wars is going to be out for a while too.
Haven't had the gut punch feeling yet with a celebrity passing, but 2016 was pretty thick with "OMG, no way!"
Then there are people who are generally touched as if losing an aunt, uncle or someone genuinely close to them. Yeah, I did squeeze out a few tears when I heard the news, not because she was a great actress and looked hot chained up.
She was a really strong role model for me in terms of accepting mental health issues and being open about them. When I was struggling to remember what is normal and to keep things quiet there was this larger than life, successful woman that everyone accepted and even loved her eccentricities. and yeah, maybe people could do the same to me. (Same goes for Robin Williams, however that was a bit more painful as of his cause of death),
So yeah, thousands of people die every day. I'm not advocating pouring it out on social media. But people touch people's lives in ways you may not see. People deal with sadness different ways. There is a lot of factors in it so don't dismiss as everyone being ridiculous and swept up in celebrity death glory.
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