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"Adventurers must be within the 30th level of experience or higher, and have at least 75 OOC hours of play (i.e., 3 days, 3 hours in STAT) to become engaged."
Personally, I feel that the time aspect of time here is unneeded. That is an awful lot of playing time, especially if your character loves someone as much as mine does! Perhaps that part could be removed, and maybe the level requirement raised to 50? Marriage and engagement is about RP, and shouldn't really be controlled. I know the idea is to not take it lightly, but I don't think that is a concern if both parties are already agreeing to it..